How can I become the best version of myself ?


I am so tired of these robotic life advice quotes. Wake up at 5. Drink enough water. Discipline yourself.
Hell no.
Real change does not come from following a script. You know what, look at all the great things in life. They all happened because someone was not following a script.
The best books do not follow same formula as all other books. They have their own path. The writer went through pain and growth to open up that new path and now you want to reduce it to advice like “wake up at 5.”
You won’t achieve anything. When you wake up and how structured your day is has nothing to do with productivity. The best life advice you can give someone is to be as lazy as possible.
But then nothing will get accomplished I hear you say. That is because you are doing lazy the wrong way. If you are playing video games and thinking about work you are not being lazy. You have to be brutally honest with yourself.
Say after me “I am going to be lazy and do absolutely nothing else.”
Then what happens is amazing. Your guts won’t allow that to happen. You will feel pain because you are facing reality and not avoiding it. So you will do what you need to do. Be honest with yourself. That is how you can become the best version of yourself. You have to find your own path. The clothes and scripts of another man won’t fit you. I can not tell you what to do. I can tell you just what to NOT do. Do not follow dreams and delusions. Follow growth.
And you know what growth is. You know how much pleasure it brings to expand yourself. Growth has nothing to do with soul grinding hard work and it has everything to do with knowing yourself.